459. What are the duties of children toward their parents? (part 3 continuation)
(Comp 459 repetition) Children owe respect (filial piety), gratitude, docility and obedience
to their parents. In paying them respect and in fostering good relationships
with their brothers and sisters, children contribute to the growth in harmony
and holiness in family life in general. Adult children should give their
parents material and moral support whenever they find themselves in situations
of distress, sickness, loneliness, or old age.
“In brief”
(CCC 2251) Children owe their
parents respect, gratitude, just obedience, and assistance. Filial respect
fosters harmony in all of family life.
To deepen and
explain
(CCC 2218) The fourth commandment reminds grown children of
their responsibilities toward their parents.
As much as they can, they must give them material and moral support in old age
and in times of illness, loneliness, or distress. Jesus recalls this duty of
gratitude (Cf. Mk 7:10-12). For the Lord honored the father above the children,
and he confirmed the right of the mother over her sons. Whoever honors his
father atones for sins, and whoever glorifies his mother is like one who lays
up treasure. Whoever honors his father will be gladdened by his own children,
and when he prays he will be heard. Whoever glorifies his father will have long
life, and whoever obeys the Lord will refresh his mother (Sir 3:2-6). O son,
help your father in his old age, and do not grieve him as long as he lives;
even if he is lacking in understanding, show forbearance; in all your strength
do not despise him.... Whoever forsakes his father is like a blasphemer, and
whoever angers his mother is cursed by the Lord (Sir 3:12-13, 16).
Reflection
(CCC 2220) For Christians a special gratitude is due to
those from whom they have received the gift of faith, the grace of Baptism, and
life in the Church. These may include parents, grandparents, other members of
the family, pastors, catechists, and other teachers or friends. "I am
reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother
Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you” (2 Tim 1:5). [END]
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